The Couple
The Bride: Bets
Betsy Mccallum
Bets is an overly practical, nature-loving teacher who has a passion for the underdog. Betsy was born in Seoul, Korea and raised in the great American mid-west cornhusker state of Nebraska. A lover of furry animals, (and scaly ones),Bets also likes music, single malt scotch, writing and working out.
The Groom: Marv
Marvin Mitchell
Marvs, is a reformed internet programmer that works in digital product and media. Marvin was born in London,England and raised in the city by the sea, Long Beach Long Island. Marvin loves tech, Betsy's genius cat martin, cooking, prohibition era cocktails and ( through Betsy's influence ) working out.
Wedding Party
Maurice Mitchell
Moe is Marvin's younger brother. He couldn't imagine the day without him. As Bestman he will be using those skills honed as a community and national organizer to ensure the trains run on time.
Bestman
Maid of Honor
Noel Scott
Based in California but never far from Bety's heart, Noel Scott has been through the ups and downs of NYC life with Betsy. As Maid of Honor Noel will again be by Bet's side to usher in this new chapter.
Matthew Mitchell
Matt is Marvin's twin brother and "stunt double". From wombmate to roommate Matt has been there every step of the way with Marvin. With Matt as Bestman there won't be a misstep here.
Bestman
Maid of Honor
Alex Elias
Often termed Betsy's New York Mom, Alex has taught Betsy many lessons throughout the years. From lessons on how to spice a soup, (slowly and sensuously) to how to be a confident, badass woman who is unapologetically unique, Alex is necessary and essential.
Tony Bryan
Tony "The Face" Bryan is one of Marvin' most trusted and dear "guy friends" Since meeting at University in 1995, Marvin and Tony have been on many an adventure. Tony's eye for style and impeccable taste will help make this one sharp and smart event.
Groomsmen
Bridesmaid
Carrie Diffenderfer
Carrie is Betsy's oldest friend. Witnessing a friend go through all stages of life (from soccer camps in Texas and strange Yugoslavian coaches who would buy them gum, to finding careers and purchasing the same dining table) is a rare gem. You can't make old friends.
Adrian Baptiste
Steel drum master, expert footballer, up and coming artist manager, and Harlem aficionado, Marvin's cousin Adrian "AONE" Baptiste is a jack of all trades. Just the man you need to have your back on your most important day.
Groomsmen
Bridesmaid
Lindsay Hastings
As a favorite cousin, Lindsay and Betsy grew up together. They built happy memories riding horses under the big Nebraska sky sharing stories and secrets. As bridesmaid Lindsay is once again there for Betsy as she embarks on this voyage to make blissful marital memories.
“I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, "If this isn’t nice, I don’t know what is."
Wedding & Reception
The Ceremony
CoCo Reef Resort
The Ceremony:
The ceremony will be held at:
Coco Reef Resort & Spa
1 Coconut Bay, Bon Accord Village
Tobago, West Indies
starting from 5:00 PM on August 20th, 2016
The Reception
Cafe CoCo
The Reception:
The reception will be held at:
Cafe Coco Bar & Bistro
Bon Accord Village
Tobago, West Indies
starting from 6:00 PM on August 20th, 2016
“I love you because only my love for you despite the charms or gravity keeps me from falling off this Earth into another dimension”
Travel
Getting to Tobago
Travel requirements for Trinidad and Tobago.
Ensure you have an updated passport and necessary travel documents. Business travellers and tourists must produce passports valid for three months longer than the intended stay and a return ticket, for entry into Trinidad and Tobago. For citizens of the United States, United Kingdom, Caricom, European Union and most of the British commonwealth a visa is NOT required for visits of up to three (3) months on vacation or Business. Updated Visa information is available here.
Booking passage to Tobago.
You can get to Trinidad and Tobago by air or by sea. Several major airlines make regular and chartered flights to either island.
Now is the time to book your flight to Tobago. The closest airport to the wedding ceremony and reception is Arthur Napoleon Raymond Robinson International Airport ( Airport code: TAB ) located on the island of Tobago in Trinidad and Tobago. Direct flights are available from most major travel hubs.
Many carriers offer less expensive rates for travel to the main airport on the island of Trinidad , Piarco International Airport ( Airport code: POS ). To get to the wedding if flying into POS airport you would book a second leg from POS airport in Trinidad, to TAB airport in Tobago. This route is operated by the Caribbean Airlines “skybridge” Shuttle at a cost of approximately $24.00 USD each way.
Betsy and Marvin will be on the island a week before the ceremony. Most guests are arriving Wednesday, August 17th or Thursday, August 18th, with the remainder coming in on Friday. Guests will be departing on Sunday after brunch or Monday.
For your convience here are a few links to check airfare prices:
To Tobago ( TAB ) : Kayak
To Trinidad ( POS ) : Kayak
“Love and understanding are two sides of one reality. The mind of love and the mind of understanding are the same.”
Accommodation
Staying in Tobago
Booking your Accommmodations.
Betsy and Marvin are excited to report they have secured several accommodation options all walking distance from the airport, ceremony, reception and beaches. All of the options are located in the entertainment district with plenty to do, see, and eat nearby. The hospitality options cover a range of options and price points to best suit you, our honored family and friends.
Coco Reef Resort and Spa
Coco Reef Resort and Spa is Tobago's award-winning premier beachfront resort, sitting on ten acres of manicured tropical gardens. Besides it's private beach, Coco Reef offers an array of comprehensive sporting facilities, gym, 2 restaurants and a Spa. Coco Reef is the location of the wedding ceremony, 5 minutes walk to the reception and 15 minutes walk from the airport.
Learn more about Coco Reef here. When booking reference the Betsy and Marvin wedding for the group/block rate of 180 US Dollars/per night @ double occupancy, breakfast included. With an additional 83/night your stay is all-inclusive. Our contact is Janelle. www.cocoreef.com / cocoreef-tobago@trinidad.net / (868) 639-8571
Coco Reef Resort and Spa
Kariwak Village Holistic Haven
Kariwak Village Holistic Haven
Kariwak Village Holistic Haven is an idyllic oasis escape made up of 24 cabanas nestled throughout a 2 acre tropical garden with over 100 varieties of tropical plants. The intimate and simple accommodations each have a private bathroom and porch. Kariwak featues a restaurant, pool, and is an 8 minute walk to the ceremony, reception, public beach or airport.
Learn more about Kariwak here. When booking reference the Betsy and Marvin wedding for the group/block rate of 138 US Dollars/per night @ double occupancy, breakfast included. Our contacts are Ana, Nicole, Tanya, or Kinnesha. www.kariwak.com / info@kariwak.com / (868) 639 8442
Sunspree Resort Tobago
Sunspree Resort is a simple, convenient hotel with a great location and attractive rates. Sunspree features a pool, bar, and restaurant. Sunspree is an 20 minute walk to the ceremony, reception, public beach or airport.
Learn more about Sunspree here. When booking quote the rate of 68 US Dollars/per night @ double occupancy. Our contact is Karen. www.sunspreeresortltd.com.com / info@sunspreeresortltd.com / (868) 631 5196
Sunspree Resort
Gift Registry
We know weddings can be expensive and most of you will be travelling to the wedding and staying the night. To help, we've decided your presence is the only present we need. However should you wish to help us celebrate with a gift, a registry has been placed with the following:
